when doing things i bring attention to myself. have you ever noticed that you do this yourself?
normally mike will ask me what i have done during the day, and i tell him. he tells me what he has done, clients he has seen, ect. just a way to discuss the days events. but even when he doesnt ask i will tell him, i vacuumed, or i washed the windows (if he hadnt noticed). now why do i do this?
seriously, why do i need to let him know "hey buddy i kept the house clean." he knows, he can see it, and if he doesnt it doesnt matter. he does things i dont see, he doesnt bring attention to it. i realized this after seeing him work outside to take care of some gardening for me one weekend. he never said anything but i knew.
i have watched women talk to their significant others and realized it seems to be a theme among us, to tell our significant others of what we have done. but why?
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